During dialogue sessions, we go deeper into these kinds of questions and we enter into a dialogue with each other as a team or department.
A practical example, a colleague in a department of a media company had very high expectations of himself and also of his colleagues. If he was not completely happy with the work of his colleagues, he could express his displeasure intensely. One of the ways he did that was by slamming doors. His colleagues didn’t say anything about that, they knew him and he just did this his thing and sometimes it just wasn’t fun to be around the person in question.
Who do you want to be as an organization, how do you let everyone in his or her value and where do you draw the line.